Hi everyone, my boyfriend and I of 9 months have been doing a great job communicating in almost every aspect of our lives, except for one; sex.

We talk a lot about what we like and generally have a great time when we do have sex, but those times are few and far between. I generally have a higher sex drive than him, but just don't know how to initiate without coming off as pushy or like I'm forcing him to do something he doesn't want to do.

It kinda takes you out of the moment to sit down and ask, "hey do you wanna have sex?" because in my experience it happens more organically than that, but we have said that before which works okay sometimes.

I was just wondering if you guys have any advice on how to initiate sex without coming off as pushy or saying it upfront?

Thanks ♥️