I'm looking for an honest, libidinous man whose personality and proclivities are fully compatible with mine and who's interested in an ongoing sexual entanglement. I'm open to a romantic connection, if that develops, or to a deep friendship. I could use those in my life, too. But what I'm asking for is someone who burns to take me in his arms and ravish me in a hundred different ways, frequently and on an ongoing basis. It isn't simply a matter of hormonal release for me, though my body does crave that. When I lose myself in a man who's lost himself in me, I feel connected to the entire universe. . .some thread that runs through me back to the first cell that ever split, out to the last star that will ever fade. I am in my right place, and everything that exists spins around me in perfect balance. I need that.

So, to the practicalities: I'm fat, fair, and 46. I have hip-length russet hair that's going gray at the temples, and blue-ish, green-ish eyes that miss very little. I have bedded a lot of men, and hope to bed a lot more. (They are so delightful, in so many different ways.) I am deeply in love with the one who shares my home. He is the only one with whom I am currently fluid-bonded. That will not change casually.

I like brainy men who are assertive in bed and egalitarian in outlook. Pretty eyes, hair I can tangle my fists in, and enough muscle to pin me to a wall are all big advantages. Age is of little importance. Race and the genital configurations of your other partners are immaterial.

My idea of good sex moves furniture. My idea of great sex leaves me on the verge of passing out from endorphins and destined to ache the next day, one way and another. Fingers and tongues and all the other things you can put between my legs to make my back bow and soak your mattress are welcome and encouraged, but the heart of a good fuck is a good fuck. The fella I'm looking for will hunger for nothing so much as to spend a nice, long time pounding into me, every time we get together, and will have the stamina to do it.

Austin seems like a big enough town to have at least one of those in it. If you think you might be he, send me a private message and tell me about it.