Hello there!

I’m Justin—a nerdy, demisexual guy living with my dog, Jax, and a passion for meaningful connections. Since most dating apps try to cram personalities into 500 characters or less, I figured I’d write somewhere with a little more room to breathe.

I’m seeking a life partner—a woman who shares my values, aligns with my long-term goals, and enjoys spending quality time together. Ideally, you’d be a gamer, since that’s the easiest (and most affordable) way for us to get to know each other and spend time together. I’m pretty frugal and would rather invest my money in my home or hobbies than waste it on fleeting entertainment like overpriced food or drinks.

It’s worth mentioning that I haven’t been single or needed to date in over 16 years, so I might be a little rusty. Subtle signals can fly over my head, so clear communication and a little patience go a long way. Friendship is the foundation I’d like to build on, but if that’s all that sparks, that’s perfectly fine too. 😊

I’m a happy homeowner and enjoy my house, so unless we become serious enough to consider moving in together or marriage, I don’t plan on moving anytime soon.

Transparency:

I want to be upfront about my current situation: I’m between jobs right now and working hard to get back on my feet financially. I believe the woman I’m seeking won’t be bothered by this and I’m not looking “to be taken care of” financially, but wanted it to be mentioned. Life’s challenges don’t define me, but how I approach them does. Also, despite my current circumstances, I don’t feel a lot of money needs to be spent getting to know someone. 🤷‍♂️

About Me

Age & Location:

•  41, based in Temple, TX (open to long-distance if meeting in person is realistic sooner than later)

Height:

•  5’9” barefoot

Body Type:

•  Slightly overweight, working toward healthier habits

Ethnicity:

•  White

Religion:

•  Spiritual/agnostic—focused on growth and kindness

Politics:

•  Moderate/apolitical (lean Democratic but not politically driven)

Relationship History:

•  Divorced. I’m re-acclimating to dating—thanks in advance for your patience!

Love & Intimacy:

•  I’m not in a rush when it comes to physical intimacy and believe it should happen naturally and when we’re both ready. When the time comes, I’d like us to mutually get tested for STIs to ensure we’re starting from a place of safety and trust. Open, honest communication about intimacy is important to me—I want to make sure we’re both getting our needs met and feel comfortable sharing what works for us.

Love Languages:

•  Quality Time & Physical Touch (tied for first), followed by Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, and Gifts

Hobbies & Interests

• 🎮 Gaming: My favorite aspect of gaming is the interaction it fosters. I prefer co-op games or ones with memorable moments to share, which is why I enjoy streaming on Twitch. I’ve poured countless hours into Monster Hunter, Dead by Daylight, Elden Ring, and various craft/survival games. Gaming is a passion I love sharing, and I’m hoping to find a woman to join me in the fun. I primarily play on PC but also enjoy my Switch and PS5.

• 🎬 Movies & TV: I enjoy everything from big-budget blockbusters to underrated indie films. Cozy binging sessions with a great series are always a highlight for me. I love discussing plot twists, character arcs, and those “what would you do?” moments.

• 🎵 Music: My playlists span everything from chill vibes to high-energy tracks. I’m always open to recommendations and love discovering new artists or revisiting old favorites.

• 🐶 Dog Dad: My dog Jax is my best buddy and constant source of joy. I love taking him on walks, playing with him, or just relaxing together.

• 🧘‍♂️ Wellness: I prioritize my health with yoga, mindfulness, and exploring new healthy recipes in the kitchen. It’s all about balance and taking care of both body and mind.

• 📹 Content Creation: Streaming on Twitch lets me connect with others who share my passions. I’ve also dabbled on TikTok and YouTube, enjoying the creative process and interaction with viewers.

• 😄 Humor: I enjoy playful banter and witty conversations, but my sense of humor can range from lighthearted to dark or even a little dirty—though I always keep it PG until I know it’s appreciated. I love finding shared laughs and bringing a smile to someone’s face, whether through a clever quip or a well-timed joke.

• 🍥 Anime: I’m a novice when it comes to anime but have enjoyed everything that’s been recommended to me so far. I’d love to explore more of the genre with a partner who’s passionate about it or willing to dive into it together.

What I’m Looking For in a Partner

Age & Location:

•  Women aged 30 (U.S.-based, long-distance okay if we can meet soon)

Height:

•  Not a dealbreaker, but ideally between 5’ and 6’

Body Type:

•  It varies, but I’m typically drawn to women who are slim, average, curvy, or have a few extra pounds. As long as you’re feeling good, healthy, and not giving your doctor a reason to worry during checkups, we’re good.

Ethnicity:

•  I’m open to women of all ethnicities, though I’ve only dated women of the same ethnicity as myself so far.

Religion:

•  Open-minded—alignment isn’t necessary, but mutual respect is

Politics:

•  Open to different viewpoints as long as mutual respect is maintained

Relationship History:

•  I value emotional maturity and someone who has learned from their past relationships

Love & Intimacy:

•  I appreciate open communication about intimacy, and I value someone who’s patient and willing to build trust. Mutual STI testing when the time comes is important to me to ensure we start from a place of safety and respect.

Love Languages:

•  Ideally someone who appreciates Quality Time and Physical Touch, but I’m flexible as long as we communicate

Final Notes:

If you’ve read this far, include your favorite quick joke in your opening message! It’s a fun way to show you’re serious (and not a bot). Let’s see if we click. 

Bonus points if you invite me to a shared experience. (Game, movie, show, etc.) I don’t want to rush things necessarily, but I prefer voice or video to gauge a connection. I’m far less boring and serious when I have an energy to vibe with and react to. 🙂

Pics of me: (Please share some of your own with me so we can ensure mutual attraction. SFW only please)

imgur photos