When people say deep connection, I am not sure the majority of the collective ACTUALLY.... understands what that means.

I'm the type of person who is going to want to know you inside and out. Every fucking thing and I don't give a flying fuck if it's only been day 1 and I'm asking you questions like "when you die what is one thing you want to take with you?" or "what is the one mask you wear most of the time because other humans don't get you?"

That beautiful brain of yours... Yeah I am going to stick my hand in it and go "ooo pretty colors, what does this mean .. ooo what does this feel like". I'm not going to lie, talking to me is going to make you question your existence and your experience on this planet. I'm a September Virgo, I'm not for the weak. Lmao 🤣

The small bullshit talking of favorite things and the interrogation phase... Yeah I don't do that. Lol. I will eventually find out your favorite color is purple and that you are an animal lover and probably play DnD or something like that. 🤣 Well....we are only on this planet for a short period of time so Hi!! My name is Laya! I'm a recovering people pleaser as well as a recovering fixer haha. (Hears a support group somewhere clapping and saying Hi Laya all at once) Where was I? Oh yes haha. 🤣 I am your new connection into peace and fulfillment. We are going to do this together. Yep you and me. You are going to contribute to the connection and so am I. Then we are going to get our asses off the internet and actually have fun together. Yep that means I'm going to want to meet you. Omg noo in person ? Yeah! I actually say and do the thing haha. I don't play Fortnite all day, I don't watch anime every day of my life... (fun fact about Laya part infinity... I don't even watch anime at all. I can't focus on it lol see... See how the random information just comes out.. very mindful... Lmao you know the rest.)

If you are ready for a deep connection that makes you go 'oh fuck this is crazy...but I don't want it to end' I'm your girl. If you haven't noticed, I enjoy the mind. So I am attracted to people who I can have that deep mental conversation with. (I don't need photos to connect with people. I don't care if you have a dad bod, or if you don't/do wear make up. The more I connect with your brain and who you are... The less your physical form matters.)

If you don't have anything to contribute to connection or a conversation, skip me. If you are only wanting a sexual connection...skip me. I am Sapiosexual. I also want that flirty banter were we both make fun of each other and or challenge each other until one of us goes "oh shit I think I actually am liking you and I can't stop thinking about you". I'm looking for a passionate lover. I definitely want more than friends. I don't do APs (Affair partners for those sleep in the back cause you think my post is too long). Yes I'm POLY not ENM. Everything is open. I am finding my own deep romantic connection. I am not looking for drama. I am also not looking for you to try to trauma bond with me. If you can't be fun and positive, skip me.

Things I won't talk about: Politics and your kids. Lol I am a stranger on the internet I don't need to know about your offspring and I don't need negative vibes about the politicalness in America. Just do the thing and DM. (If you don't know what to say feel free to answer one of those two questions from the start of this post) Don't leave a comment I won't respond to comments.