I use to get frustrated seeing beautiful women chase unavailable men. Then I realized I was chasing unavailable women. Once I fixed that behavior I realized how pathetic it is to bend over backwards for some DA who’s getting an ego boost from rejecting you, or even worse one who’s hot and cold.

I use to put DA women on a pedestal, but now I see them for what they are. Cowards who distract themselves, so they don’t have to do the internal work. DA’s say they don’t need relationships what they really mean is their afraid of them.

As a recovering FA who’s trying to be better I’ve learned the only respectable route is to look inwards and do the work. I’ve learn that the women I haven’t been excited about and came from healthy family are the only ones fit for a relationship.