Hello women of Reddit. I’m typically not the kind of guy that posts for something like this, but I feel like I am at a loss.

Without getting too into it or complicated, have been together for roughly 15 years, married 5, and I feel like either I have changed or she has changed, or both. I am a very physical person and also have a high sex drive. I like grabbing ass, a light spanking, etc, in public, and I have also recently in the past 4 years discovered what my preferences and kinks are called and also have dove deeper into them, and of course she isn’t interested. I try to initiate sex and maybe works 10% of the time.

I’m basically wanting someone that shares my kinks, and also someone that I could actually have a connection with. **Kinks include public play, car play, anal play, facials, creampies, toys, role playing, spanking, light choking, hair pulling, BDSM with rope play, I am a dom, so dom/sub dynamic, oral, throat fucking, etc.

About me, I am about 5’8. I currently have a dad bod (not overweight) from being complacent I guess in the relationship, but I am working out. I used to be an athlete, so don’t think it will take very long. I have blue eyes, shorter brown hair with a trimmed and short beard. I had a very nice job, I am into collecting cars, and I also used to race professionally. I do have a 4 year degree with a masters and a specialist degree. For curious minds, I have a clean/ddf and very thick BWC. Yes I can verify, no I’m not just going to send pics of it to start with.

Looking for someone that enjoys the good morning/good night texts, always gets butterflies when we message, is within a reasonable distance as I eventually want to meet you and get physical, shares the same kinks and is submissive. I mainly work from home, so ideally you would as well to make it easier.

Maybe I’ll find a like minded woman this time around! Cheers 🍻