Hello,

First off, I want to say I'm not looking to be a door mat and I'm not looking for a mistress to tie me down and whip me. And I am absolutely not looking for a findom.

What I am looking for is the opportunity to get to know an assertive, strong, take charge woman. Someone who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to take it. In the past I've dated women who were type-b personalities and I hated it. Too much "I don't know" or "I don't care" when you asked them questions. I hate to use this word but these women were boring. It was like talking to a brick wall.

By "Female led" I mean I am open to you taking control and deciding the aspects of our encounter. You choose where we go and what we do. Be the pack leader and I'll follow. I'll be the Bane to your Poison Ivy.

This isn't a fetish for me and this has nothing to do with sex. I have been attracted to strong women for a while and I'm just now wanting to be open about it. This is my preference and I'm not going to be ashamed about it.

I don't want to be a total submissive either. I have my own thoughts and feelings and I'm willing to discuss them. I'll follow you, but by your side.

I would love to have the opportunity to get to know you and possibly share a meal or an outing together. And to be completely up front with you it would be nice to see where this goes, but I don't want to rush anything. Let's take it one date at a time.

About me: I'm a 34 year old white male 6'3" a few extra pounds. When I'm not browsing Reddit or working (or browsing Reddit at work) I like photography, reading, writing, hiking, martial arts, board games, escape rooms, trying new restaurants, and anything that lets me explore new places and ideas.

So if this sounds like something you might be interested in please feel free to message me told talk further or ask me on a date.

Thank you