So I’m pretty much a lurker around here and subreddits like these (I posted once to RAOMD, but kind of chickened out before going through with it), but I actually had success with an intimate r4r meet up and wanted to share my experience for all my fellow Fs looking for an erotic massage.

I decided to reach out to u/RubsByJay after browsing this subreddit on a Friday evening and coming across his post for an erotic massage. I felt like I could use one of those, so I decided to reach out.

He responded shortly after and we started talking about when we’d be able to connect. I was very comfortable with the conversation from the beginning as he’s very easy to talk to and communicative. We discussed the specifics of my visit, what to expect, what I am/am not comfortable with, etc. In short, I felt there were nothing but good signs leading up to our meet up on Tuesday!

I was super nervous driving to see him because I wasn’t sure what to expect, but my nerves were somewhat alleviated because he gave very clear, easy-to-follow directions. When he met me at the front door, he was very nice and professional (for lack of a better word because obviously this isn't a professional massage, haha), and I started to feel better about my upcoming massage.

On to the massage:

It was almost as if I showed up to an actual massage parlor. He showed me to a room where the table was already set up as well as had very relaxing spa music playing. He left me to undress and get comfortable on the heated massage table (which felt wonderful for a cool February night 😉).

The massage was amazing! Very relaxing. Had it not been so sexy, I may have fallen asleep for how relaxing and good it felt. He uses actual massage lotion, and to me, it felt like he used actual massage techniques!

He was very respectful about touching and massaging me... only doing what I was comfortable with and asking questions/permission as needed. This was big for me because, well, you just never know with a stranger sometimes. But I felt completely comfortable and ok to speak up about anything and was just thankful that he was being a gentleman about it all.

When the massage concluded, he left me to get dressed and then walked me to the door. The whole ride home I felt relaxed and ready for bed. The massage lotion made my skin feel so soft! Best massage I’ve ever had, and I didn’t even have to pay for it! Would 100% do it again :)

Thanks again, Jay!