I’ve found that posts asking and answering this question tend to be helpful for a subbredit, so I’d figure I’d give it a try.

Now me, I am by no means an expert. I’m an introvert who likes posting nudes online to be more of an extrovert. I like perversion to a degree, I like getting complimented, but I’d like to have something that extends out of an online chat. I wouldn’t be surprised if this rings true with a number of other people, (primarily guys), in this sub. So, how do we make ourselves more appealing? How do we find someone willing to meet us in person?

Well, modesty is probably a good tool. By no means do I intend to speak for others, but I’m pretty sure an honest description of yourself, what you’d like to do, and what you can do will go a long way. There’s no shortage of people trying to put on airs to impress someone. “I have a 8” dick. I can send you out of this world.” Blah and blah and etc. I’ve noticed that something genuine seems to get more responses, more people willing to comment. In instances like this, a chat can do wonders, provided you actually try to hold one.

Now aside from being both modest and genuine, things are hard to figure out from there. Even if you have an honest post, how do you stand out among the deluge of M4F posts? I have some thoughts, but I’m also not a woman. There are a number of things that people want, things that they like, things that attract them. There’s no real sure-fire method, but I have considered visiting other subs where you can have conversations about sexuality, relationships, and etc. I think that’s a good step to finding some productive ground with people who have enlightening experiences.

Now from there, I think some general personal research is what will help, but I’m hoping that by getting a conversation going, something might happen in this sub; who knows. In any case, if you’re up for talking drop a message below or a DM.