I'm a 32 year old White guy and I've been active in D/s dynamics for around a decade at this point. Over the course of this journey I've met lots of wonderful people and had many meaningful experiences. I've also had some definitively less wonderful and meaningful experiences. I've always been the type to try to push myself towards experiences outside of my comfort zone from travel, to hobbies, to careers, education, and certainly in my sex life. That being said, I'm coming to a point in my life where I want to continue my sexual exploration with exclusively one person for the remainder of my time on this earth, to build a strong, healthy foundation for a long-term committed relationship and eventually (when the time is right, I'm not rushing things) settle down and start a family together. This is all beautiful and wonderful and very Colleen Hoover of me, but the difficult part is finding a partner who wants all these things but also wants things a little more on the spicy side in the bedroom. I've discovered enough about myself through the years to know that I need a little hair pulling, booty spanking, lip biting sex to keep the physical intimacy healthy. I'm not into anything I would consider extreme kink-wise, but I am the type to push myself and view sex as another avenue for self exploration and discovery for both myself and my partner.

I'm the type of guy who knows what he wants. I spent a significant amount of my 20s in both unfulfilling careers and relationships and decided I needed to make a few serious changes in my life if I wanted to improve and grow. In the last few years I've graduated with my Masters, started a career in education (I teach college), healthcare, and even dabbled in academic research (I plan to continue on for my PhD in the not so distant future). I've been going to the gym consistently since last June (started taking it more seriously ~3 months ago, going 5-6 times a week) and have spent considerable time working on myself. Now comes the big scary part: being vulnerable and honest with what I want in a relationship. It's scary, sure, but my grandmother once told me, "if you want something you've never had before, you have to be willing to do something you've never done before." So here I am, trying something I've never done before.

A few personal things about me, I have a very wide array of interests ranging everywhere from sports to fashion to art to science to gardening to chess (I'm obsessed, unfortunately). I won't get into the details about them all here in this post, let's save it so we have a little bit more to talk about when you message me.

Physical basics:

• 32 (I look younger, administrators are always mistaking me for a student)
• 6'1
• 160lbs
• White
• Blonde hair (shoulder length)
• Blue eyes
• Clean shave
• Fit (gym 5-6 days/week)
• Graduate degree
• Eclectic taste
• Great style

What I'm looking for:

• Biologically female (this is not negotiable)
• 18-30y/o
• Good shape
• Seeks support, peace, and growth in a relationship
• Wants kids in the future
• Has a kinky, subby side

If you've read this far we're probably a good fit (I like a girl who reads), so message me! Don't let that wisdom go to waste; do the thing you've never done before.