So this community is pretty active and I’m assuming that the people on here are regularly finding partners who mesh well with their kinks and at least some of us are having fun and meeting others. But… in my 30s I find that part of my kink is finding someone im emotionally compatible with, who also shares my kinks/proclivities. That, for me, is where the real fun comes in. I love having a partner I care about, who cares about me, and wants to actually know about each other at least a little, and explore sexual fulfillment …. But also go to dinner and support each other outside of sexy time.
But, is there anything worse than finding that emotional connection, and THEN discovering the person you’re newly emotionally connected with is absolutely, fundamentally, and entirely not at all interested in whatever you’re interested in sexually, and vice versa?
That said, I’ve read some articles about reverse dating where you start off discussing and confirming that your sexual profile is compatible, and then seeing if you are also emotionally compatible. Has anyone done this? Does it work?
To me, it seems like a lot of blogs and sexual health proponents are very excited about it, but I’m not sure it would really solve anything as it’s just focusing on the same dichotomy, but just reversing the order of operation.
If anyone has pursued this, and had success/failure, I’d love to hear about how you initiated, moved through the process, and what you’d do differently in the future to maximize success!
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