This one's wordy but it's worth your while. So, to be clear; the target audience for this post is women age 23-36 (please no younger, but a little older is ok) who are SINGLE, OR in a non-monogamous POLYAMOROUS non-hierarchal relationship preferably living no more than 6 miles outside the perimeter. Not swingers, or hotwives, or bull hunters. Though, for the right offer, I can be persuaded.

I have found that my most fulfilling relationships have also been with people I’ve had many of my best sexual experiences. And vice versa, my most boring and forgettable relationships, we had some pretty unsatisfying intercourse.

Now, you’re probably thinking, ”u/WatermelonLemonade7, ofc that’s been your discovery. Emotional intimacy has the capacity to make or break your sexual chemistry!”

And you’d be right! My caveat here is that ALL (no exaggeration) of these fulfilling relationships started as physical relationships first! The FWB, The D/S relationships, The flirty coworker, etc.

SO! HEAR ME OUT! Instead of trying to start our journey as friends, let’s attempt to start our journey as ✨❤️ lovers ❤️✨. Let’s establish that sexual compatibility, make sure we enjoy how we stimulate each others bodies and minds, meanwhile building up the trust to discover and explore deeper into our fantasies and likewise deeper into our connection and relationship.

Which leads me here. I want to try this instead, and here’s how it would go ideally:

--Step 1) You continue by reading this short bio (wow you’re doing so good for me already, thank you) and see if most of it intrigues you.

Me: 6'0", 235lbs https://imgur.com/a/Jljlam4

I identify as a sweet, sadistic, pleasure, daddy Dom. The exchange would feel like when you are with me, I am all yours, and you are all mine; a precious being to do whatever I please with and whom I can ask anything of. In return, I cherish you, look after you and bring you feelings of safety, assurance, and stability. This can be (and is welcome to be) taken to an extreme. We're both adults who live our own separate lives and I would like to keep that separation as well, but there should be a concerted effort to show that mutual devotion bordering on obsession ESPECIALLY when we're with one another. But like in a cool, non-codependent way. For those who need more image into what a "sweet, sadistic, pleasure, daddy dom" is; combine the above with spicy interests like: bondage, impact play, anal play, breath play, edging, repeated/forced orgasms, bruising/marks, stretching.

--Step 2) You're intrigued. You message me; ideally a name as well as your favorite emoji or what you resonated with that you read.

--Step 3) We talk. Chat. Flirt. Feel out if this is something we want to take into the Real World: Atlanta.

--Step 4) We’re in the Real World: Atlanta; things are hot, and fun, all coming to fruition. Coitus Everyone’s floored, or at least above averagely satisfied.

--Step 5) Continue talking. Chatting. Flirting. Things are still pretty casual, but you are definitely wanting to repeat step 4, which it inevitably does. We like how the other communicates.

--Step 6) We find out that we both want a few chickens in our dream house, also 2 alpaca and a few ducks.

--Step 7) ??

--Step 8) Profit.

If you've made it this far, send me "🧋" and I'll send you a spicy video for reading all of that. I AM looking for more than just a few pretty holes, I’m a lover boy and I need my lil lady. So if you're totally opposed to a ltr of some sort or unavailable, this one might not be for you.

But I’m also a slut, and you need to be something similar.

TL:DR; I’m handsome and give amazing massages and I’m sweet. I’m basically taking a page out of the bdsm handbook and looking for someone who fits my kinks, and THEN vetting the fit to see if a relationship should be formed.

P.S. If you know me, no you don’t.