I'm a 32 year old White guy. I've got blue eyes, shoulder length dark blonde hair, a clean shave, and an excellent fashion sense. I'm an academic and I teach at one of the larger universities in the state of Georgia, meaning that I'm a very private person and play things close to the chest when it comes to my full identity. But with the right person that I establish trust and communication with, that degree of privacy begins to dissolve. I've been out of the lifestyle for a little while but I feel like I now have the time and resources to devote to the building and establishment of a fulfilling D/s relationship with the right partner. I have years of experience as a Dominant and find that it gives me a healthy outlet for my natural leadership tendencies and vision to thrive within the context of a relationship. My ideal partner values and embraces these characteristics and strives to complement them in every way she is able. She values communication, trust, and obedience as much as I do, both in and out of the bedroom. From the outside looking in, a D/s relationship may seem a bit one-sided, but in truth it is a deeply symbiotic endeavor that should always be treated as such. Submission is a pure gift, one that a Dominant should always cherish. If you're interested in learning more, the best way to do so is to talk to me (so feel free to message me), but I'll include a bit more information for the curious cats out there.

CURRENT STATUS:

I'm a Dominant seeking my submissive with a long-term orientation. I've come to a point in my life where I'm confident that I know what I want from a partner and I have little interest in playing games or being ambiguous in my pursuit. I want to build a uniquely satisfying and fulfilling relationship from the foundation up with a submissive partner who understands her value (which I will frequently reinforce) as a crucial part of our beautiful puzzle, and embraces and supports the natural leadership and dominance that I provide. Together, we create a gorgeous, primal force that embraces each partner's unique tendencies, desires, and talents cooperatively. Us against the world if it comes down to it, but Us together most importantly.

THE BIOLOGY:

• 6'0 (maybe 6'1, not even lying fr fr)

• About 150-160 lbs, athletic build but certainly not a muscle boi

• Shoulder length brown/blonde hair

• Not the man-bun or beardy type

• Well endowed

HOBBIES/INTERESTS:

Where to begin? I love literature but I've found myself reading less over the past few years as my job requires quite a bit of it. I currently have about 94 student essays to read and grade by Sunday evening, but I find myself here on Reddit procrastinating. Love that for me. I've recently gravitated towards short stories and poetry. I'm a huge film buff, I've seen more movies than I can count and certainly more than I can remember. If you need a movie recommendation, I'm your guy. I won't bore you with yet another Barbie or Oppenheimer hot take, but I will tell you that Heathers (1988) is the best movie of the 1980s (yes, better than Star Wars, don't @ me nerds). As I previously stated, I'm pretty athletic so I enjoy a game of soccer or tennis when I have the opportunity and I played sports in high school/college. I recently started going back to the gym over the summer so I'm working back to my more athletic shape. I'm also very musical, I started playing piano when I was about 5, and guitar/bass guitar when I was about 15. It's one of my goals this decade to learn the violin. So if you're a good girl, I might play you a lullaby at night.

KINKS:

Yes. But buy a fella a drink first lmao (We can talk about this in DM)

DEALBREAKERS:

• I don't want to make your wife my sub, don't message me with that bs

• If you're a gay male sub and you're "wishing me the best," that's great, love that for you. I genuinely hope you find what you're looking for. But it's not me and it won't ever be me. Please respect yourself enough not to waste my inbox space with a message

• Financial domination - I have no interest in findomming you or being findommed by you. There are plenty of people who are into this who are not me, please respect yourself enough not to waste my inbox space with a message

• UNDERAGE - I really shouldn't have to explicitly state this but if you are under the age of 18 we have NOTHING to talk about

• Asking me for pictures (dick or otherwise) in your first messages. In case you haven't noticed by the length of this post, I'm looking for more than just a physical attraction. Too many of y'all just picture collectors anyway

PREFERENCES:

• I like short girls. But honestly, all y'all under 5'8 seems like a shorty to me so if you're a lil taller than that maybe we'll just make some D1 babies

• I like feminine girls. Dresses and skirts >>>>>>>>>>>>>> (if you're interested in getting more in touch with your feminine side in this culture that increasingly promotes traditionally masculine traits for women, we've got ourselves a conversation starter)

• I like nice girls. If you're rude to the waiter/waitress on our first date there won't be a second date.

• Relatively in-shape. You don't have to be a supermodel, but I value my health and exercise routine and I'd like my partner to as well.

If you think we’d be a good match, then send me a message! I don’t bite (hard)