So let me start off by saying this is my opinion as a straight cis guy or whatever living in Georgia...the state of dating or "having fun" is kinda trash. Idk what the issue is if it's social media/tik tok or people just getting plain dumber (kinda like Idiocracy) but people seem to be outta wack. To begin...I probably will have more to say about women moreso than men...so take that for what you will. From the male perspective...it seems to me that what women want is a man that looks both left and right at the same time. What I mean is that women say they want something...but when that something comes along y'all seem to weigh your options as if a mf got time or patience to wait on you. Also...women very much seem to think that coochie is worth its weight in gold...as if men out here in the desert looking for an oasis. Y'all need to get ya mind right and have some perspective, just cuz you have a few guys sniffing your ass now don't mean that it will last forever. Depending on if you want something that will last awhile or not...men care about things like how you hold yourself and the baggage you carry. If you think you're priceless then act it...but don't make rules for those that come after you've made your mistakes. For the guys, I'd say we collectively shouldn't allow ourselves to be treated like less than. I hear all the time about kings this and kings that...but kings don't settle for less than. There are too often times when fuckboys have their pick of the litter and would fuck your sister just as soon as fuck your cousin or whomever else may be close to you. I'd say that shit should be put on a halt, fucking around is nice and all but I think most men would agree that having a girl that's down bad for you is better than 3 or 4 hoes that give you the side eye or pity fucks you here or there. I understand cheating is an issue on both sides...so communication is definitely a high point when it comes to engaging in activities whether in a relationship or not. I personally have avoided people due to the issues listed above...I have self worth and I know what I bring to the table...I have no reason to stoop low or allow people to treat me however they choose to. People at the end of the day are selfish as hell so...pick and choose wisely. Idrc what the opinions of others might think...at the end of the day peace means alot more to me.