I find myself at a loss and I need some submissive men to help me understand.
I’ve always kind of naturally fallen into the submissive role. Let me rephrase that, I always start out in control. I’m direct about what I want and don’t want. But once me and a man have a rapport and I feel comfortable letting my guard down I am naturally more submissive.
In relationships I require a lot of attention. I like when a man takes the lead, makes the moves, etc. But I have found the best D/s relationships have been one where the dom is sweet and caring and doting on me which allows me to let go in the bedroom.
But being the domme always perplexes me. I never know what men want. It’s always selfish. And I was under the impression that a submissive is here to serve me. But maybe I’m super wrong. Maybe a submissive man needs to be treated like a submissive woman. And doted on and given lots of attention for him to become what I want. But if that’s the case I might as well just not have a submissive. Bc that’s more work than I wanna put in and I’m not naturally dominant.
Yet at the same time when I like a guy I naturally dote on him. Because of my mommy like tendencies.
Anyway help me understand. If you’re a submissive man reading this, what is it that you want from a domme??? Please tell me I’m so lost.
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