I have a dilemma. My wife and I have been married for seventeen years come Saturday and I love her more today than when we met in college. She is perfect for me in every way.
Except for one. A few years ago, a medical issue caused her pain when we had sex. It got to the point that even getting aroused started to hurt, so we stopped having sex entirely. Even after resolving the issue, it has left her without a sex drive at all really. She will occasionally say yes if I ask, but her low sex drive is directly opposite of mine.
We have had an open marriage for a long time now and recently we decided it would be best if I found a new partner to bridge the gap between our sex drives. Which leads me to the aforementioned dilemma: I have no idea how to go about finding another person who is amenable to our unique situation. Tinder and Bumble haven’t really worked out. As a bi man Grindr has given me perspective on what a woman’s DMs usually look like. And so I turn to Reddit.
I’m looking for someone who likes to flirt, who enjoys art, poetry, theatre and books. Ideally available during the afternoon and who doesn’t mind being second chair in my otherwise perfect relationship. Thanks for reading.
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