I'm an experienced vers switch looking for local play partners. I'm not into hookups or one night stands. I'm looking for kinky play partners or fwbs.

I'm into many kinks. I'm demisexual. I prefer to get to know you or I can't feel sexual attraction. If we talk about sex and bdsm, that's part of the negotiation and vetting process but I need to connect emotionally to feel attracted. I don't need to be in love but i do like a level of genuine friendship and mutual respect in a sexual relationship. I'm looking for someone who is into me and compatible. That should go without saying but many people offer to have sex with no attraction.

I'm a 6 ft tall hairy bear with tattoos and genital piercings. I'm not monogamous. I have hsv-1. I require std testing and safer sex practices if we are going to do anything that is a std risk. My Dr says toys are no risk as long as we don't share toys.

I'm into anal play, chastity subs, anal training, rope bondage, electroplay, knifeplay, figging, enemas (not into shit), flogging (as the top, not so much receiving). I'm a service top and I think a service sadist. I'm a dominant masochist. I like being a brat with a sadist. I only do vaginal penetration on me with sadists because it feels like knives in me. I have a vch piercing and 4 outer labia piercings so I can have my pussy laced shut to be an anal only slut. I want to rail a femboy all the time when my testosterone is high.

I'm also into massage, wax play and sensual play.

I have no body type or dick size preferences. I'm attracted to the person's personality, intelligence and kinkiness. Emotional intelligence, self awareness and an ability to communicate your desires and needs are a must. I also need partners who care about my emotional needs and sexual pleasure whether I am in a dom, top, sub or bottom role. I'm open minded and willing to try your kinks even if they are not listed here. I can't guarantee I'm into every kink, but we can get to know eachother and establish chemistry and connection and negotiate.

I enjoy bdsm relationships most when we have shared interests and hobbies. In some of my bdsm relationships I have bonded over psychology, heavy metal, the horror genre, Southern Gothic literature, Roman history, language, Lovecraft, sci-fi, Taoism, Foucault, and discussing bdsm in depth. I love spitballing scene ideas with other kinky people and talking shop.

I don't always want to do the same sexual roles or activities all the time. I work best with different partners into different things or fellow switches into some of the same things. My sexuality is fluid in the sense that I'm a switch and I don't have a static sexual role. If we are in a bdsm relationship, I can be a static role for you (your sub, dom, top or bottom) but I will still want to do other roles with other people.