About me

- Cis woman, average/healthy weight, under 5 feet, "busty petite"

- Very independent. Own my house, own my company, have my investment accounts. Generally speaking, I "have my shit together", and you should too.

- Work in adult entertainment. Have a team of employees, which really helps with work/life balance and lots of flexibility! I'm not here to advertise, and will not be immediately sharing my work identity. I'm happy to discuss what I do and how I slot it into my daily life, but I'm not looking for advice/"mentorship"/etc.

- Attracted to intelligence. The term "sapiosexual" has become pretentious and nauseating, but there's something to it... I need to be able to have real conversations, and we should be able to constantly learn from each other!

- Generally identify as "queer". Labels are weird, sexual attraction is a finicky thing. Someone's genitals don't matter to me. It's all about the connection we have, and our compatibility. I've been with men, women, trans and nonbinary people, it's all great! (I usually post F4M on Reddit, to reduce bot spam, but I'm always open to partners of any gender)

- Childfree. Sterilized. No kids, never having kids. I woke up from sterilization surgery, confirmed that the tubes were gone, and promptly (and perhaps too loudly) proclaimed, "Yay! No babies!"

- Non-monogamous. Currently have other partners, and am most comfortable with having two or three. I believe deep connections can be had without any need for exclusivity. Condoms and STI tests are musts.

- Love to travel. In normal times, I take trips monthly. Usually only for pleasure, but occasionally for work if it sounds like a fun opportunity! Sometimes I travel with friends and family, but I take lots of solo trips too, including internationally. Travel hacking is a hobby of mine!

- Probably not as intense as I might seem in this post? I consider my kink needs to be of high importance, but I'm actually quite chill once I know someone.

- Keep busy with animal rescue, as well as occasional activism and immigration volunteer work. Love learning more about psychology, sociology, neuroscience, and finance. Read often, especially sci-fi.

The kink/what I'm looking for

- Power exchange is a must. What that looks like exactly, can be defined collaboratively. Looking for something with long-term potential, no hookups. I look for more than bedroom-only kink.

- Some brat tendencies during play, but it depends a lot on the person and how much they encourage that.

- Top 4 kinks: Impact play, orgasm control, objectification, bondage.

- More kink interests: 24/7, caning, forced orgasms, humiliation, individual free use, praise, restraints, spanking, training.

- I'm not looking for online only. I'm not really a fan of anything requiring NSFW pics, video calls... I expect we'll be able to meet up occasionally to spend in person time together.

- Less common hard limits: Anything in or on my mouth/lips (that does include giving oral), face slapping, choking.

- Other hard limits, including but not limited to: Bathroom play, body writing, feet, needles or cutting, permanent marks, almost everything illegal.

You, ideally...

- At least 28 years old

- Some experience with kink already, and a good idea of what you're looking for.

- If you live in/near Atlanta: Dekalb county is a must. I'm medically unable to drive right now, and don't host (housemates, who I do prefer having, but they're so nosy!), so taking regular Ubers to Alpharetta/Marietta/etc is not sustainable.

- If you're not in Atlanta: Please be relatively near an airport that has nonstop flights from ATL, as well as an ability to schedule IRL time with some regularity. Us both being able to travel, especially to new locations, is preferred but not necessary.

- Are patient. Things take time to blossom, for mutual trust to build. Some patience during in-person scenes is also required, as I have health concerns that can sometimes create brief but unexpected interruptions.

- Stay aware of and take reasonable precautions against infections (COVID, flu/viruses, STIs, and others)

- Are not a cop, immigration officer, or anyone who otherwise is in the habit of violating human rights. We will not get along.

Let's talk more!

- You must have a bio of some sort. A post on BDSMPersonals, your profile, Fetlife, or similar is all good. More is more; I'm happy to read it all! I have a lot written here so that you can assess compatibility early on, and I expect to be able to do the same.

- Reddit chat strongly preferred over DMs.