Kinda been starting to do things that are building up to breaking up with my BF and this one came as a suggestion to me from a Redditor too far to meet so I'm posing it here. Simple but I guess ill break it down...

1. You MUST be willing to record this on my phone. For most of it you can hold the phone and probably for all of it - idk if it will be needed, but in any case your face will NOT be in it unless you want it to be.
2. This is not a sex video, just me giving you oral, and a pretty short video, I don't want it to last forever. I want the video to start at a point where I'd have already been sucking you for a while. I'd like you to be somewhat "controlling" or "dominant" verbally telling me like going lower or faster, etc. whatever fits that bill.
3. Easiest way to be believable is saying something in the video about you always seeing me at the gym and wanting to add me in your "rotation of bad girls" because my bf gets paranoid about gym bros and all that. You can be a little controlling in the video by saying you want me to hurry up because you still haven't showered off since the gym.
4. At some point in the video you tell me to go down the shaft and spend some time on your balls (this is something I have always told my bf I would not do for him so it will be very offensive for him to see me doing that on you).
5. A little further in the video you will tell me to put my tongue in your butthole. I'll stop and say no I'm not doing that and you tell me that it wasn't a suggestion. You guide my head down to it. I want to make sure you video a close up of it happening. Idk how much or deep I need to go for this to be what guys really want but I'm okay doing what you actually enjoy. I don't want to do it for long. But this whole part is a huge huge turn off for my bf and he'd be horrified to see it. I want to do this tonight between 6-7 ideally because I'm meeting up with him at 8 and want to kiss him afterward (I won't be showing him the video tonight but Ill make sure to make it very clear that right before he kissed me this night, my tongue was in a random mans.. everywhere)

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Bonus if you are any of these things that he also hates or has made a dumb comment about in the past:

- hairy pubes/butt

- uncircumcised

- older

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Not looking for love or some long time thing. I don't want to spend the whole day with you or meet your family. I want this to be simple! I just need to know that you fit all these criteria. You must be somewhat verbal or it just looks like I'm doing these things for me, which is a little not on target if yo know what I mean.