Just as an exercise in information sharing, safety, and consent. I’ll start:
Red flags
men who refer to women as “females” as a noun and not an adjective
unsolicited dick pics
telling me how they want to “use me”
suggesting stated boundaries are “fluid”
don’t respect the stipulations outlined in the post (i.e. - married men who respond to posts looking for singles, etc.)
Green flags:
ask questions about something other than sex
willingness to meet in public the first time (or however many times it takes to feel safe)
questions about how to please and a willingness to do those things, as opposed to self satisfaction
sfw pics and an ability to handle honesty and “no” as an answer
My personal red flags are introductory messages that are one word, unsolicited sexual content (either dick pics or unsavory language), being uncomfortable with sharing SFW pictures, and not being comfortable meeting in a public place initially.
As for green flags, essentially the opposite.
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Yes, 80% of the replies we get are simply this. We delete them and move on.