Around six months ago, I started a social experiment...

I wanted to see what would happen if I inserted myself into a niche community as an outsider, and engage that community on things from an outside perspective as someone totally new to that world.

I stumbled on atlantar4r.

Here's what I found: a life-changing experience.

And now it's all over...

Greetings, all you WONDERFUL and beautiful, sexy people of R4R!

It's been a while. I missed you

*SUUUUPER LONG POST AHEAD.**

BUT...that's cause It's the last one.

I'm leaving.

I've been tapped for cool big boy career move that's taking me out of the A in the coming months, so being part of Atlanta R4R seems kind of dishonest, & I'm nothing if not a...what's the opposite of a liar? A truther? (Those are the guys who believe 911 was an inside job, right? We'll work on it 😉)

More importantly than that, I've been doing some growing in my spiritual journey.

I've found God. Or rather, God's found me. Again.

This time though, I want to take that growth seriously.

I've come to recognize that for me to become my best self in that regard, I have to make some changes to the things I take in, and R4R isn't really the right environment conducive to that growth.

That isn't to say that it's bad or anything, just not my cup of tea anymore.

That said, this sub has honestly changed my life for the better.

I've made (hopefully) life-long friends here, experienced romance and genuine connections, learned how to engage an audience by being myself, and ironically, found a bit of myself along the way.

All you wonderful, beautiful ladies that lurk here...you've spoiled me rotten.

My dating life has never been so busy since I started posting here. I love it but my wallet hates it 😂 I've made some GREAT memories and experiences with some of you, and I'm forever grateful to those who took the time out of their lives to share a little of it with me.

Guys, there are some AMAZING ladies here. Get to know them, and some amazing things will happen. Trust me.

Girls, there are some GREAT guys here who will edify your life with great experiences. Trust me.

All in all, this has been a (mostly) great experience.

For that I say, thank you.

Thank you for accepting me, a hyper-analytical virgin who's never stepped foot in the kink world, posting off-topic conversations, and not making me feel lesser or weird for it.

Thank you for entertaining my stream of consciousness blog posts, despite this not being a blog site.

Even moreso to all of you who engaged with me, and shared pieces of yourselves. You helped me come a long way as a writer and boosted my confidence in my abilities.

Thank you to all the great people who slid in my dms and formed great connections with a stranger. Continue to do so, they're always open.

I'll still be posting up content, guides, etc. It'll just be from this account, not here (for all 5 of you who actually read all this).

There's some things I wanted to leave you with, but this is FAR too long already.

What I'll say is, you've been wonderful to me, and I'm grateful for each and every last one of you, for you all have taught me something about people, and myself.

I hope and pray you all find the desires of your heart become your lives' reality.

I hope you all get to experience what I have since coming here: lots of genuine connections, great experiences, and growth for your life.

May blessings, success, and peace be your life story.

I love you all.

Be well, my friends. Just don't be a stranger 😉