Hello, please bear with me.. I'm going through a very rough patch. I met this guy over the summer, started as a hook up, because I was just trying to "have fun" after a very long dry spell. I met him through a dating app, and right off the bat he started talking about hiw he was at a point in his life where he wanted to be in a relationship. I told him to slow down and to be honest put me off a little but still went through with it, he had sex that fist date, after that we met a couple of times but no dates just straight to it. I told him I wanted more and he pulled back. He'd ghost me for weeks, and be very dry with me. He said I was clingy because I wanted him to be consistent in his communication. I finally gave up but I'd reach out again after weeks and he always replied but we didn't meet anymore. I told him I was done after crying so much over him and didn't speak to him for awhile but he messaged me telling me he wanted us to be together for real, and then nothing happened after I agreed. He's done this twice where he says he "loves" me but doesn't do anything to prove it. I'm numb sometimes but then I feel everything again, he says I ask for too much when I haven't seen him in months! At this point I know he's using me for whenever he feels lonely (he's in the military has said he doesn't like it here) or horny (we sext only) every time he pulls away I lose it. Every time. And I know he's gonna keep doing it but I feel like I'm ready to move on. But how? He's aries if that's relevant, I'm libra (with majority of water on my chart and identify with my pisces rising when dealing with this stuff) thank you