So I'm not officially diagnosed with autism, but with ADHD (inattentive type), but I've been suspected to have autism, and honestly almost all of my friends are neurodivergent so it wouldn't surprise me if I also have autism, anyway.

I've noticed a difference in what makes me dislike people compared to "normies" and I want to know if other neurodivergent people are the same way.

Basically, for me to straight up hate someone, they have to actually DO something towards me, to make me not like them, whereas most people will dislike someone for superficial reasons.

Someone can have the weirdest takes, false beliefs, strangest ideas, odd mannerisms or just be "weird," but unless that person actively harms me in some way, I just cannot hate them??? And what I mean by harm is physical or emotional harm.

I can have periods of "splitting" on someone, but it goes away and I usually won't hate someone permanently. Wheras some people have straight up hated my guts over minor disagreements, or the way I "act" even if I'm not harming them or anyone else.

Some might say this is a good thing, but it can hurt so much sometimes especially when someone who I thought was a friend, or even an acquaintance that I had no issues with turns out to hate me, and I can't pinpoint what I did to make this person not like me.

So basically, does this happen to you?