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He is my coursemate. Things he’s done:
Shakes a little bit in fear before speaking to me
Texted me on average 5 days a week for 9 months
Calls his friends all the time but is very adamantly against calling me
Walking me home regularly
Spoken to me in my country’s language (very accurately)
Sang a popular song from my country to me
Told me he’s suffering from “temptation” and asked me for advice about it (100% talking about sex given the context of the conversation)
Always asking me to keep secrets for him
Checks on my health/sleep/grades once in a while
Complains that I don’t ask him for help enough and basically forces me to accept his help because he doesn’t want me to fail
Stuck his hand out to me and said “do you have a spare plaster” as though he wanted me to put it on for him
Said “I’m hungry but I don’t want the food here. I want (insert my country)’s food. I’m really feeling (niche food that usually only people in my country know about). My friend’s mom cooked some for us a few years ago. Do you know how to cook it?”
Tries to include me into inside jokes with his friends that I do not want to talk to.
He’s done quite a bit more. What do you guys think?
Ask him. Years ago, I decided the ambiguity wasn't worth it. You spend all this time wondering and imagining and trying to interpret signals, only to find out later that he was never truly interested. It is a waste of energy. So, ask. Then you know.
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