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How do you know if you’re in a place where it would be healthy/safe/sane to try entering the dating world? Do you need financial stability? Do you need to have good mental health? Do you need friends? An active social life? Do you need a nice job? A nice house? Should I lose all hope? Context I’m about to be 26, just ended a 3 year abusive relationship nearly 3 months ago and am terrified that it’ll happen again. I make very little money and my brain is always mad at me. I feel like this makes me easily manipulated as well as the autism obv. Any advice is appreciated
For me, I need to be in a healthy enough mental space to face massive quantities of rejection. That is the way dating is today. With almost unlimited choices, folks are very quick to reject any sign of a mismatch.
It is nice to be stable and optimistic. Losing hope doesn't seem super productive. However, it just takes time to heal from heartbreak. It is okay to take the time you need to build yourself back up, build up your self esteem to be in a better place when you date.
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