I know this probably going to be doing things on hard, but here goes. I am male,27, male, 5'11 , and a bit overweight but have lost about 30 pounds and counting (exercising). I recently seperated from my wife due to cheating and was a common law relationship. I own my own place and dated one other person outside the US d I did ask her about dating but then turned me down and made me swear off anything serious for a while until someone convinces me otherwise.

Ar any rate, prior to our seperation I seemed to have about 7 interactions with women that may or may not have been flirting. Afterwards it kinda shrank and have not seen much intrest post break up. I did add a female friend from a fb intj group and a married female coworker and I talk like we have been friends forever even though in office work just resumed. I felt more confident once I started taking DHEA but the metformin I have been taking tamed it I think.

I want to also work on rejection therapy too and makes it feel weird as I am trying to not try but I also want to be cool as women seemed to come to me when I acted cool. Beyond acting aloof is there anything I can do to attract fwbs? Thanks!