How do you get over the pain of an ex boyfriend being married to a woman you are no longer friends with? (We weren’t friends when they got together, so no foul there). I do want to add though that about the same time they started their relationship he actually was trying to contact me. When I responded he left me on “read” on messenger and I never heard from him so that was whatever. I thought this was odd.. maybe trying to find out information about her or wanting to pick who to date?

Anyway they just had a baby boy and are apparently married now... all within a span of a year. He also has a young daughter with another young woman. It is the same scenario.. starts relationship, few months down the road she’s pregnant and he gets engaged to her.. only difference is with his daughter’s mother they ended up being together a few years and never got married. With the former friend he started a relationship with her, she gets pregnant, engaged and now apparently married. She actually had me blocked then the second they got together I’m not blocked anymore. Any time they’ve split up she has done this.. block, unblock, block, unblock. I can’t bring myself to block either one of them.

When I asked him (in the short few months we were together) what his relationship goal was.. he wanted a long term relationship of at least 5 years.. but with these two women things got serious fast?? I have never understood why in any relationship a guy with me wants to act like he’s not in a rush but when they’re with someone else it’s completely different. It isn’t just with this ex either.. it’s been with a few. Am I not good enough or something? I do have dating profiles up but last few months I just don’t even really look at them much or make attempts to “match” with people.

Just to add that me and said ex had a toxic relationship.. always arguing, I thought he still wanted to be with the woman he was with prior to me (who I talked to a year and a half after he broke up with me and said the whole time i was with him he was trying to get back with her). They always want their exes, never me.