Hi,

I have had a recent fear come to me. I have noticed when I don't give a fuck women tend to seem more interested but then as soon as I show a tad bit of interest they clam up. I had this happen 2 times when I was thinking of fixing my Yogi Bear shower (long story) , but more as talking to the neighbors and a second time when I was trying Phenibut for the first time, but she went on about how we need to do this and that and the other thing and then proceeded to jump on the bones of my friend (in fairness he invited her so I am not mad at my friend but more like how do I comically keep messing shit up you know? Do I act completely uninterested and show a poker face?

On the opposite end you have people that say oh approach women and I don't get mad at an individual woman for rejecting me but more like how can I fuck this up this bad? Am I in a fucked dup version of Glenngary Glenn Ross? Is by the fact I am even approaching simping\validating in and of itself and thus is kicking myself in the ass before it starts?

Dos anyone either act extremely one way or another around the opposite sex?