I think one reason there’s so many of the posts here frustrated about sex is for us aspies it’s such a mental release, as well as a physical one. Maybe that’s not just an aspie thing, but being able to routinely find someone who can help with that as an aspie is far more challenging. For me sex and sexuality can be about the passion of it all, but at base it’s literally just the visceral nature of it. And finding someone willing to be that visceral with it is harder yet. It’s just such a taboo area, that it’s not like you can treat it with that hallmark aspie bluntness in any meaningful way. I guess apart from in this community.