I'm a girl, and I have this tendency that when I find someone I consider to be a good friend, I devote attention and care for our friendship and don't really do it for other friends (not that I have many).

That never ended up well, and all the other times the people got fed up with me and left me. When I met this person last year, I told them this trauma I have from previous friendships, but I wanted to nurture ours still.

We were good at the beginning, but several months passed and I noticed that they started to not do things with me anymore, and when we had plans together, they would "forget". I then tried to have 3 conversations with them about what's going on and trying to understand, but they never wanted to talk about it really.

The last time, they got really upset at me and started renting at me for demanding too much from them, and said that they can't offer that, and that I'm having hyperfocus on them. The conversation ended with me saying I will step away, but that I don't have hyperfocus on them. They disagree.

That word hurt me so much, because I really don't think I have a hyperfocus on them, and for them to say something like that as if it was nothing, and throwing everything we lived in the trash is so frustrating! It's been more than a mouth, but it still sticks with me... I don't know what to do.