So I am digging myself out of a financial hole I made for myself due to depression and some other things, but I tend to get into arguments with my mom. When I lived with her she acted very religious (and still does), even though I practice my faith in my own way. When we argue I sometimes feel like yelling shut the fuck up because she keeps asking me how will I fix it , despite making steady progress on my financial situation. It just hurts because if I defend myself or simply ask a question (mostly ethical in nature) she tends to be a stick in the mud. She has been helpful, and lent me money and listened when I have issues, but sometimes it feels like I can't get a word in edge wise when we argue unless I get super angry. I also think this has contributed to holding my emotions back as I worry I will do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing to other people.