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What’s up, I’m a 21M, and my name is Nick, and I’ve been friends with this girl 20F for about 4 months. We had known each other from school, but never really talked. One day she comes up to me where she works and we talked for about an hour. We exchanged Instagrams and everything took off after that. We started texting, calling, FaceTiming, flirting, and would fall asleep with the FaceTime on. We really enjoyed it and I started thinking about having a romantic relationship with her. This all happens in a month.
However, I wasn’t completely sure if she was into me. One night, we get some food and she brings up the idea of having a relationship. This confirmed my suspension regarding whether or not she wanted a relationship. We started holding hands, etc. and I went for a kiss. She moved away, and I figured it was too soon. I texted her the following morning and she would take days to respond to me. Like 4 days or more. This would go on for 2 weeks. So, I figured she just wasn’t interested anymore. However, she would send me messages like "Hi nickkkk" so at the time I was super confused about whether or not she liked me. I eventually lost my cool and asked her why has she been so distant from me. We had an argument and didn't talk for about a month. About a few weeks later, she texted me and asked if we could talk. We talked and she told me that was never interested in me. I thought that was absolute bs considering the texting, calling, face timing, and the fact that she brought up a relationship, however, I never mentioned this cause I hate confrontation so I blanked out. I felt she should have made herself more clear about her feelings toward me when we had our argument.
Anyway, we patched things up, and we are still in contact. We talk almost every day, she's usually the one who initiates the texts/calls. We even went out and my friends told me she was definitely flirting with me but I was oblivious. So things aren't that bad. The thing is I'm confused about whether or not she's interested but I don't want the lose the friendship we have together. I know she's told me that she wasn't interested but that doesn't line up with her actions at all. She drives me crazy sometimes cause she can be stubborn and petty but that is what makes her, her lol. What should I do?
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