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is (26 M ) teacher grooming (17 f) me or am i overthinking it ?
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i am a (17 F) and my teacher is (26 M) since I reached my junior year my teacher has been making it quite obvious that he favours me from simple teasing between the two of us which he mostly makes sure that everyone hears to having full-on serious conversations with me. i entered his classroom alone one day because i questioned his rubric criteria the conversation got deep he told me about how he and his wife are no longer together and how he is single now. ( backtrack there were rumours about him hooking up with a senior last year) he told me that the rumours were not true and proceeded to ask me if I thought he was ugly. at moments when I grew quiet, he would ask me what I was thinking about. he constantly told me about his problems and his life growing up I felt sorry for him and this continued one day when he came up to me and sat beside me he would move closer to me every time and look deeply into my eyes. I had to do a project where i needed to interview a vast amount of age groups so I i thought id ask him he said yes and during that session, we both stared into each other's eyes for quite a while i was supposed to give him a card with help lines with my number attached to it that was a couple of days ago. I always find him around me somewhere he's always looking at me or has to say hi i don't know if I'm the one who is starting to develop an obsession or if these are red flags that he wants our relationship to be something more

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regardless of whether he has romantic feelings for you OP, he is being completely inappropriate.

It is inappropriate to favor one student over the other, to tell them about your personal problems, esp shit with your spouse… asking if you think he’s Ugly… gross, creepy behavior on his part.

I know this is one of those typical things you’ll see stated but when I was 26, I couldn’t Fathom being into a 17 year old…. Good god. At 29, a 25 year old has a world of difference. … Let alone a 20 year old.

It’s not Age difference alone, it’s the massive gap in LIFETIME. at 20 I was Barely in college, had my head up my ass with my own bullshit.

Maybe when I’m 40 I could see liking someone with a 9 year difference…. But the 20’s are Such formative years…. Your brain isn’t fucking developed properly until your mid-twenties.

OP, I am so happy you have the wherewithal to recognize something is UP with this guy…. stay the fuck away from him. Don’t communicate with him outside of the classroom. Keep your words inside the classroom scant.

And also tell someone else. A parent, preferably… An adult would be best.

17 is a child…. 26 is an adult grown.. his attention is inappropriate, at best.

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