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Could you give me (F20) advice on how to leave a situationship where the guy is actually nice (26M)?
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My problem is that there are no problems. The guy is awesome, he's respectful, funny, kind, handsome, he buys me food, he spent so much money on me and I didn't even ask for it. I feel like I'm falling for him, so I have to leave him because we'll never be together. Technically he doesn't avoid relationships, he said "if it happens it happens" but I'm totally not his type. He calls me cute, adorable, beautiful but he himself said he's into pale blondes (meanwhile my hair is naturally dark brown and I even dye it black I'm white but I get tan super easily). I know how to explain it to him, I'll be honest, but I don't know how to explain it to myself. What to do to not miss him? How to not cry when I end things between us? I already got so attached to him, how do I stop it? It would be easier if he was a bad guy, but the issue is he is just perfect. He's just a little short (he's my height, I'm 5'3) and I usually go for guys that are tall (the last guy I was really really into was 6'3) but I don't think that's an issue at all because he's not insecure about his height. I've been at his place everyday since Monday and I've decided tomorrow is the last day and things are done. My eyes tear up when I think about it and I know I will literally break my own heart by doing this, but I can't keep going with this because it'll drain me emotionally

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