So, my partner is an AMAB person who has been struggling a lot recently with wanting to be feminine in a trans way, not just in a femboy way. Their biggest struggles (at least that they’ve expressed to me) are proportions. Specifically, they have a fairly standard AMAB body, aka a rectangle. This includes their face, which is like a squovalish shape.

Since they don’t exactly know how they want me to help, especially considering they don’t know where to have me begin, I figured I would seek out some help.

So, does anyone have any makeup tutorials or key words I can use to search for good ones for their face shape (like I said, square oval type shape)? And what kind of clothing would be good to help them fake a more feminine structured body (aka a smaller waist)? The struggle for me is that I myself am not the most feminine of people (my partner currently wears skirts more than I do), and when I tried to do the makeup that works for me it did not work for them (I have a different face shape).

I want to help support them as much as possible. This is not something there they want to ‘pass’ per se, more they just want to feel more feminine and comfortable and confident in their body. So if anyone has any tips on how I can support them, especially in less obvious ways, those tiles would also be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for any help, I really really appreciate it.