Is it weird to not want to use pronouns for now?

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I’m interested in how other people feel about this. Right now I’m pre-everything MtF and present in boymode all the time. I’m called he/him by everyone I know, the ones that do and don’t know I am a transwoman all the same. And I wouldn’t want them to use she/her until I have “earned it” by looking enough like a woman, in my view. To me I feel it’s kind of a package deal, where only when I present as a woman is when I want to be addressed as a woman (not passing, just presenting). Is that weird? What are your experiences with pronouns?

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