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Okay, So I've been (MtF) full time for about 2.5 years and when I first came out to my mother she was completely understanding of my wish to change. But there has been this big roadblock that we've hit in out relationship and I really feel its starting to make us distance. Recently I've been enforcing and more demanding to be refereed by my "new" name and the pro-nouns. I used to be very reserved about correcting people cause even though I've been in girl mode since my senior year of highschool I am very socially awkward and just have issues correcting people over anything. So since I've been in demand about this my Mom says I am not respecting her feelings and this whole thing is just about me,me,me and I don't consider anyone else's feelings. She also doesn't believe me that my friends that I have been friends with since the 2nd grade really see me as the girl I am and keeps referring to my transition as a "Phase". So I am at a complete roadblock at this. She says she supports and loves me no matter who or what I am but then she turns around and disrespects me with wrong name, pro-noun, etc in public and just in general. But if I correct her I am denying her feelings and I am the bad one in this whole situation. So please help me what can I do? I don't know what I'd do without her in my life but this issue is eating at my core.
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