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Hi all! My wife finally started hrt and I'm so excited and happy for her! We've been together for 5 years now and have 2 kids together. I have a couple questions! First, her doctor told her she should warn me that her attraction my change and she may not be attracted to me anymore. I had never heard of that and I've done a lot of reading to try and prep myself. So I'm wondering if anyone here has had that happen? She currently identifies as pansexual and I'm female but kind of on the fence of non binary. Second question is, we're both aware that with hrt, loss of sexual drive/function can be/is a thing. Is there anything we can do to help preserve either or both or is it just sort of inevitable? My third question is, does anyone have any cute memes or quotes or whatever that I can send her, print out to leave around for her, etc etc. I want her to constantly feel surrounded by support. I want her to know just how deeply in love with her I am and how she has my unwavering support through everything in life. She sent me a selfie after her first appt smiling a genuine smile and I almost cried because I'm so happy that she's happy. And finally, is there anything else I should know? Anything to better support her especially at the beginning of this journey for her. She's known for a long time that she's trans and I've known since before we got together but she's never had the support to transition. Were there any surprises that your Dr didn't warn you about, of any variety, good or bad? I want to be the best wife I can be for her. Thank you so much to anyone who reads this, sorry it's a novel!
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