Hormones and weight? So l've been seeing this guy and he seems cute, however, two things happen. 1- he was touching my body and stopped on my belly, he asked me if I had been taking hormone pills (l'm trans) which I replied yes, then immediately he said: "I've heard that some girls get fat with hormones" and then he squeezed my tummy slightly. (I'm 5'8, around 130 pounds, have a very proportionate body but lately l've been accumulating more fat on my belly) not much. 2- he then said " I don't have Lots of experience with trans, however, according to the few I know I have to say that the most gorgeous are NOT in hormones" omg I was so offended. I send him a couple of super assertive messages on how to treat me and how that was inappropriate and he recognized that was stupid and not great, however, I don't feel secure or easy with the idea of having him around. I think that even with a cold mind l'I always be thinking like "he has better options" or something like that, ( the rabbit hole) We are planning to go to NYC soon and I was so convinced before that and now honestly is 50% 50%. I don't know what to do. Any thoughts?