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Question about sig others before transitioning
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So, I have wanted to transition for a long time. Initially I couldn't due to my meds, and I was told a lot of dumb stuff that discouraged me. I ended up burying it down for a long time, but its gotten harder and harder. I have been thinking about starting the process again, and talked to my sig other I have been with for almost 5 years about it. The issue is I never really brought it up much in the relationship prior, which was absolutely a mistake on my end. When I did tell her she said she would support me and try, but she dated a guy and isn't attracted to girls. I get it that is her secuality and I respect that, and she is supporting me in ways to express that side of myself. She just doesnt think we would work if I actually start hormones and stuff cause she wouldnt be attracted to a girl. I love her like crazy and I really don't want to lose her in that way. I guess my question is has anyone experienced something like this? How did you handle it? What happened to the relationship after transitioning?

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