31F here that is as tired of the dating apps as everyone else. But as a plus size woman, I feel like the level of vitriol and shit that I get from men on apps is egregious and is making me just want to stay away from dating altogether. Between hateful messages about my size, sexual messages, and just getting matched with conservatives, I’m done LOL.

Where are you all meeting your partners? Any tips or tricks to meet people? I think I know the answer is that I need to get outside and go to specific spaces but I’d love to hear where you all frequent and any other things that have been helpful in your journey.

Big thanks in advance and a happy new year!