I (26 m) have been with my bf (26 m) since March. At the time he told me he was more of a bottom but he has only had sex with 1 other guy before. I am a top that occasionally likes to bottom. I also have only been with 1 guy before but i was with that guy for like 2 years almost. The 1st time we had sex he didn't clean out because of stomach issues he had that day so we did non penetration stuff which was not at the time because it was new to me. I'd only topped b4 that. About 2 or 3 months pass before he finally decides to clean out and bottom and he said he enjoyed it, but that was the only time he ever bottomed for me. I keep asking him about it to this day and he said it felt good and it didn't hurt or anything, but he hasn't wanted to bottom again and I'm starting to not me able to finish during the non penetrative sex and I'm wanting more out of sex. He says he just likes side stuff more than topping or bottoming. I would be the bottom but he can't stay hard long enough to get inside me and then he cums pre maturely trying to get it in. He's trying to come up with ideas to make sex better for me but tbh i just really want to top again. I don't know what to do because he obviously doesn't like bottoming and I'm not gonna talk him into doing something he's not wanting to do. There are times when it's great and hot enough to make me finish but lately I've been craving more. I don't want to jerk myself off anymore cause i can't finish during the nonpenetrative sex.