Hey, I'm closeted and also a virgin, and I'm wondering where the best place, either physically or virtually, would be to meet other guys in the exact same situation as me.

I mean, the best thing I could probably do is come out and waltz into a gay bar, but I don't think I'm ready to come out yet and bars aren't really my thing, especially if I'm going in alone. I've risked showing my face on a few gay dating sites before too but shortly afterwards have taken them down.

I haven't really met a whole load of other closeted virgins online, it's mostly guys who are already a bit experienced or bicurious guys with girlfriends. Considering how many guys must be in the closet, surely there must be somewhere out there for us?

I'm looking for both physical and virtual suggestions, though virtual might still be the preferred. I feel like I'm missing out on the gay scene.