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Was he flirting, or just very nice? 😅
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So I've been helping out at my parents' business since they opened this year, basically working a part-time job on the weekends (and some holidays) besides my full-time, at least until they find someone permanent. We are from a very touristic part of the country and a lot of the clients we get are foreigners, and I happened to attend two Brazilian guys on holiday.

They were quite pleasant, and I decided to give them some tips on places to visit, writing down a few names on a piece of paper. At the end one of them asks my name and instagram, the latter which I found a little odd, but figured it's just so he can ask for more suggestions.

Later that day I talk to him for a bit and he mentions how I must be tired, that I work hard, and drops a line mentioning that he's a masseusse and could give me a massage. At this point I'm thinking he's flirting, but try not answer back in a flirty manner. I simply thank him and we talk a bit about the area he's visiting.

The next day I see his insta story, showcasing a town I suggest he visit. He says it was lovely, particularly the nudist beach, and thanks me for the tip. I tell him I forgot there was a nude beach there 😅. The day after he says he's going there again and asks if I'm coming, to which I reply that I can't due to work, but thank him regardless haha. And finally, on the day he leaves he mentions he was glad to have met me.

So... he was definitely flirting, right? The reason I ask is because I've never been flirted to outside of the context of a bar/club or NSFW context. This happened "out in the open", so to say.

If he was flirting I feel silly not having gone further, because he was really nice and handsome, but on the other hand I had work obligations to fill...

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