Is it okay to expect a guy to loose weight?

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So I’m back in the dating pool after 8 years of relationship and it seems that guys who like me are not very physically attractive to me. We have good conversations, but…they tend to be overweight while I’m quite fit. I’ve met 4 like that in the past couple of months so there’s definitely a pattern. Two of them mentioned loosing weight, but how much can I make this an expectation?

Alternatively, are they not attracted to my personality, just my body perhaps?

Edit. Most people say no, it’s not okay. A follow up question then: should I tell them the reason or just stop talking?

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