I'm vers and ideally I want to be with another vers guy, though to be honest it doesn't really matter when it comes to hookups. I have noticed that I there are some types of guys I'm more interested in topping than bottoming for, and vice-versa. Guys my age and a bit younger (20s basically) I'm up to do both, but if the guy is a bit younger than me and skinnier then I'm more interested in topping him. On the other hand, if the guy is quite a bit older than me and bigger (ex: a bear), then I feel like I would rather bottom. I've been chatting with this cool middle-aged bear guy for a while, and while I would definitely enjoying topping him (which he seems to want), I tend to picture myself as more the bottom.

In a ways I feel like I should be more open minded regarding the guys I prefer topping and the ones I prefer bottoming for. It's like I've developed stereotypes for the types of guys I want bottoming for me and the ones topping me. And the more similar a guy is to me, the easier I find it to be completely vers.