Hi! I’m a 36y/o blossoming queer. A few years ago a friend of mine was talking about how he would regularly go to steam rooms and saunas and 9 times out of 10 almost regardless of location end up in a circle jerk. I’m not particularly a gym rat but right before covid I went out to spa castle in queens and kept my eyes peeled in the steam room for the tell tale signs he told me to watch out for and sure enough I had walked right into a circle jerk and it was rad. Obviously steam rooms aren’t like a thing I find myself in these days with the whole global pandemic thingy but now fully vaxed I’m wondering if this sorta thing is happening anywhere anymore/again? Also if any locals have some good tips on spots, LMK!