Sometimes I'll be sexting with a hot guy on grindr and things get hot and heavy and then he'll send me nudes but the pubes look like they've NEVER been trimmed, which for me is very unattractive. Its like...the guy will be a 10/10 and then oop, his bush is literally covering half his cock. Not only is it visually unappealing (for me), what is bound to happen is a pube will get in my mouth and I'll have to pick it out of my mouth mid blowjob which is awkward and not sexy. I just find untrimmed pubes very unsexy so rather than put myself through that experience, I end up just being like, "oh darn I have other plans...maybe we'll meet up some other time" and like never meeting up.

Yes, I know. I feel like I'm being way too picky and anal retentive but also at the same time, do you think there is a polite way of saying that you prefer trimmed pubes...or should I just keep doing what I'm doing, which is essentially being flakey af...or should I just be like, "oh didn't realize you're untrimmed. Not a match, sorry!" I feel like all routes are...not great.