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Checked on bf on grindr, next day he cheked on me.
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So I've been feeling a bit weird with my boyfriend, I feel like he's acting distant and weird, but theres a huge chance that's all in my head.

We met through grindr, and i've always heard, grindr gives him to you, it takes it away... this isn't 100% true, right?

Well... yesterday i downloaded grindr for 2 minutes to check if he was online, and he wasn't, in fact, he was offline (what does that mean btw)? So I proceeded to delete it right away, but today he called me and asked me what was I doing on grindr, which lead me to ask him what was HE doing on grindr.

According to him, he was suspicious with my attitude lately (same thing as me lol) and that's why he went on to check, and guess what, he found that i was online 23 hours ago and I don't understand why I didn't show as offline?

Like does that mean that he deleted his account? and does this mean that he has a new one that i didn't know about? he told me that he cheated on his ex girlfriend when he was already too tired to save the relationship and what if he feels the same way now?

Don't get me wrong, if it has to end, it ends, but I don't want to if it's its saveable because I truly love him.

Soooo.... how do I go about this guys? How do I prove him that I was just looking to see if he was online?

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