Alright, before you jump and attack me, I’m here humbly asking for advice on what to do with this. Which means that I’m open to it.

I was hooking up with a couple. Then it turned out that they needed business advice which I’m really good at and we spent hours talking. Their roomie arrived and I was flabbergasted.

I decided to get to know the guy and we have an amazing connection. But. The guy had to leave his country and come to mine because his was fucked up. Which means that he has not much to offer me professionally/economically wise.

All my life I was raised to think that my partner would be the one to take care of me in that matter (I never completely agreed) and it’s a conflict in my head because I don’t want to care but I do.

This guy is super hardworking but in his head he doesn’t have the vision of life and success that I do. And in terms of materials (that you have to admit are important up to a point) I’d be the one having to provide and it’s not like I’m in my greatest spot thanks to COVID.

So... I guess my question is: would you date a guy who is financially and professionally in a way lower level than you?